Children faced with parental and social abuse

child-abuse

The BBC WHYS started a debate about child abuse following the case of a baby, who suffered horrendous abuse at the hands of his mother and two men, was killed him in his own home despite regular visits from care workers.

Children have the right to live in a sound environment as childhood affects adult life. Parent who can’t rear and protect their children should have them removed from them. A child needn’t live under constant torture in his tender years. Sadist parents shouldn’t be allowed to mistreat their children by considering them as their own property and it’s nobody’s business to interfere with them.

A child’s place is in a family, not in an orphanage or a care centre. This means children shouldn’t be taken from their own parents only to be in a place where they feel uncomfortable and yearning to be like the majority of children surrounded by real kin. In other words, they shouldn’t be in an artificial atmosphere to make them feel at home, but actually, it isn’t a real home.

In many societies, children are abused by their parents by being frequently slapped or even beaten up by them. In these societies, there are no social workers to protect them.

In third world countries where the poverty of parents is coupled with the state incapacity to protect children in a difficult situation, it becomes common to see children exposed to all sorts of abuse at home and outside home because there are no means to snatch them from the situation in which they are.

In Morocco, there are care centres for abandoned children. However, they are just token centres as they have the capacity for only a very small number of children in a difficult situation.

In view of the lack of the means to protect these children, the authorities turn a blind eye, especially to parents who use their children and even babies for begging.

There are parents who give up their young daughters as old as five to work as maids and they are denied even access to school.

If children can’t have the chance to have a normal life, they should live with a relative willing to accommodate them and why not be given for adoption by families starving to have a child. Leaving children at the mercy of a cruel family and social problems means preparing them to be violent or diffident people. Their past childhood will continue to haunt them even when adults although they seem normal and stable.

10 Comments

  1. Hisham said,

    November 16, 2008 at 7:00 am

    Hey!

    You know what, this new blog of yours looks great: more comfortable to read, nice colours, balanced ratios between posts and columns.

    Bese7a! Bi Tawfiq Incha’allah!

  2. November 16, 2008 at 12:29 pm

    Thanks Hisham for your encouragement.
    I wish you great success with your new blog.

  3. Hannah said,

    March 13, 2009 at 3:32 pm

    i think that child abuse is WRONG! anyone who abuses chidren shouldnt have children. i think they should have to go to jail for a lifetime with no bond.

  4. Siaenna said,

    June 24, 2009 at 1:01 pm

    I am researching Child abuse for my exams, and whilst i was just reading this i wondered to myself if children actually know what to do if there home life isnt goin vey well. Well every child deserves a happy childhood because you are only a child once and what happens when you are young stay’s with you for life!! If any child is being mistreated their is a annoymous child line you can call for free at the number of 0800 1111
    By calling this number it is the first step to becoming happier..

  5. July 2, 2009 at 7:35 am

    why did people do that to their child?does their child did wrong for them to do that?
    their so immoral why did they do that its just because they are accused by drugs??

  6. nikki merk 2 said,

    September 30, 2009 at 5:16 pm

    stop hurting child-ren! ..pleaseee .. im a small person i feel big.. and i care alot for kids. ttyl

  7. gabrielle said,

    December 8, 2009 at 8:32 pm

    stop abusing your children

  8. Mark said,

    December 8, 2009 at 11:58 pm

    This is indeed a really nice blog. It has good information and it looks great!

  9. Abby Fernandez said,

    February 19, 2010 at 7:59 pm

    i think that people that abuse kids should be arested PRONTO( ASAP) for spanish……..<3 i mean what kind of heartles person would do just things to a poor little child????????

  10. hawwa said,

    November 21, 2011 at 4:46 pm

    peaple who abuse kids will soon be abused them selved so dont worry children!


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